Re: Unfair Treatment Posted by: Bonita Baker on October 27, 19100 at 11:47:31: In Response to: Unfair Treatment posted by terpfan on July 19, 1999 at 09:17:58: : I was recently involved in a heated argument with an ex-staffer in my office, during which he became agressive, threatened me, to which I responded by setting him straight on some issues. I was in the process of making him aware of other issues that never were addressed prior to his termination (in response to his allegations of poor treatment by me), and I blocked his exit by standing in front of the door to my office. When he challenged me to "go outside and finish it", I responded by calling him a litte "piece of ----", and basically told him what I thought about him. He then left shortly afterward, no physical contacat made. As a result, I have been demoted, reprimanded, and made to feel as though I cannot lose my cool one ioata. This for a company for whom I have worked for 25 years, with no prior history of discipline. The kicker is, my replacement was of the same ethnic backround as the ex-staffer and the upper management person who made the decision to demote me. I need some honest feedback...was I totally out of line? Did I deserve such severe discipline? Am I a victim of reverse discrimination? Please help, if you can, I am at wit's end. This is a real story of a concern mom with much love for her child. Follow Ups Back to Kickin Brass WWWBoard created by Matt Wright and can be found at Matt's Script Archive WWWBoard 2.0a2b updated by James Kent 05/08/98. |